Living satisfied and fully, implies daring to break molds, stereotypes and even conventions. It means that priority is given to shaping an existence according to our values and needs. Achieving this involves focussing ourselves on our “personal growth” where we know how to make the decisions that allow us to meet our goals and make our desires come true. This resource and life tool can be useful both to develop ourselves at a professional level, and to achieve that personal fulfillment in which nothing is left over and nothing is missing.
It is not about increasing pleasure and decreasing suffering. Fullness has to do with self-realization, reaching a level at which point we feel good about ourselves and perceive ourselves as people capable of dealing with adversity and reaching maximum development. Thereby finding that vital meaning and activate that self-awareness that allows us to know how to react at all times according to our needs and values.
It is not a simple process. Reaching that personal fulfillment implies having to work on many psychological and emotional dimensions, to achieve, for example, how to deal with the fears that stop changes. It is looking at the present to envision opportunities and transform them into new routes for the future, without resistance to change and without attitudes “on the defensive” or anchored in fear. To empower yourself personally is to understand that, if we want something better for ourselves, we must promote it, and that the result of this self-work is none other than self-confidence, self-esteem and personal freedom of self-decision.